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  • We are the Galans

    We are an engineer+artist, husband+wife that love one another deeply and seek wholeheartedly to serve Jesus with this one life we have been given. We believe that we are called to be His hands and feet here on earth, and one of the ways we want to do that is through adoption.

    This is where our adoption story begins...we are excited and we need your help. Your prayers and your support mean the world to us as we walk through the process of bringing home two children from El Salvador to be part of our family. Follow our story here and join us in this joyful adventure of adoption!

Happy Birthday to my boy, and a BIG prayer request

Today is our boy’s 8th birthday, and I so wish we could be with him to celebrate!   I am thankful that this is *hopefully* the last birthday he won’t be with us.  I don’t know what his first 8 birthdays have held, but his next 8 will be smothered in hugs, full of homemade pancakes and spent doing things he loves.

In other news, we got an e-mail last Friday afternoon that has us reeling a bit.  Our adoption agency has lost their Hague Accreditation  (more details about what that is in the link), which means that they can no longer process our adoption.  Sigh.  It isn’t surprising; they have been slow and unresponsive for months, however it is frustrating, especially at this point in the process.

The agency said in the e-mail that they would be calling us this week with the details of what that means, so we still don’t know much.  What we do know, is that we will be transferred to another agency for the remainder of our process.  We don’t know if there will be more expenses incurred (likely), and if so, how much they will be.  Just a few weeks ago we paid our last big payment.  It was intimidating, but also a relief not to see any more large 4 digit numbers looming.

Would you pray with us this week and this month for a smooth transition?  Also that our payments can be transferred over without any additional fees?  And of course, for continued favor and speed for our paperwork as it goes through governments.

As our last post mentioned…we trust in God, and we know He has every detail under His control.

“being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 1:6

I keep coming back to this verse throughout our adoption process…God promises to complete what he began, and this adoption has been His since the beginning so we trust in His timing and process!

Why we aren’t worried…

Throughout our 3.5 years in the adoption process we have been asked many questions, but there is one that comes up over and over and I want to share a little of my heart about it.

Since we are adopting an “older” child people often ask (or assume) if we are concerned about all the baggage and trouble that can come with a child who already has life experiences, many of which are probably not positive.

The short answer is “no”.

We are not naive; we have heard and read many heartbreaking stories about all that has happened in adoptive households.  And we are human, so sometimes our hearts do begin to wonder and worry.

While in El Salvador a few weeks ago we met with the OPA social worker to update our home study.  She spent almost 3 hours with each of us for our interview.  But the first half was less of an interview and more of a monologue about her personal experience with adoption.  She has 11 kids; 6 adopted and 5 biological.  She told us horror story after horror story about the things she has lived and the things she didn’t know before.  At the end of it I was nearly in tears, and my heart was torn to pieces wondering if we really were doing the right thing.

But then…I picked up my Ebeneezer stone and began to remember.  I remembered all that God has done through this process to make this adoption possible.  The doors He has opened, and the way he has miraculously provided time and time again.  Like the time a big payment came and we didn’t have the money, but that same week we got an unexpected check with a tax refund we had no idea we were getting.  Or another time, the night before another big payment was due, a friend made a donation that was almost exactly what we still needed for that payment.  Or the time we got a call saying our agency had LOST THEIR LICENSE to process El Salvador (and other Hague country) adoptions, but within a week it had been re-instated.  I could go on with many more stories, confirmations big and small that God has kindly given us throughout this process, each time building our minuscule faith a little more.

And again I come back to that sweet chorus, “Great is Thy Faithfulness”.

So as we look at a file with the broken story of a little boy in need of a family to call his own, we will declare our God’s faithfulness and trust in His perfect plan as we begin to prepare our family and our home to bring home our son.

Friends, I encourage you to trust God to do the seemingly impossible things He is calling you to.  You will experience Him in a real and raw way, and you will see Him work firsthand to bring His great plan to fruition while using your imperfect but willing heart.

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

Philippians 1:6

Adoption Update and our recent El Salvador visit


What a whirlwind this past month has been.  I have about 18 blog posts I should write but instead I’m going to try to cram it in to one for you!

Our El Salvador trip in April was a perfectly timed gift.  We got some much needed time with family and so much done for the adoption.  There were quite a few documents that the El Salvador Office of Adoptions (OPA) was requesting and would have taken months from the States; we were able to finish them in our two weeks there!  That did mean long hours and full days doing adoption paperwork and interviews, however we are so thankful that we were able to accomplish so much!  We were able to complete our dossier (to their standards) finally and move forward with the process!

The OPA board met two weeks ago today to formally review our dossier…

and you guys…


While we didn’t have any reason to believe that we wouldn’t be, in the world of adoption nothing is a ‘given’.

Two days after that meeting, they met again to “assign” or match us with a child profile.  And you guys…


I don’t know how much I’m allowed to share just yet as nothing is formalized yet, so for now I will just tell you WE HAVE A SON.


It feels so crazy yet so right to type that.  I’m practicing saying it out loud too!

While it is just beginning to sink in, we are trying to start wrapping our minds around what that means.  Things like re-arranging bedrooms, talking to the school, and beginning to prep Elise.

We still have about 6 months of paperwork ahead of us, but the end is FINALLY in sight.  At least it seems that way for now.

Thank you for your words of encouragement, prayers and support.  We would be so grateful if you would continue to partner with us in this process.

A few items to pray specifically for:

-favor and speedy approval of all paperwork with both governments

-continued financial provision (God has miraculously provided every step of the way…let us praise Him for that too!)

-for God to prepare our hearts and home to bring home our son

-for God to prepare our little guy to come to his new home and join our family

You’ll see a few photographs from our recent El Salvador trip here too.  Below are Josue’s grandparents…two of the kindest, strongest, most loving people I’ve ever met.  Papa Tobal is a pastor who has left an incredible legacy in ES…he’s like the Billy Graham of El Salvador.  I went a little out of control with pictures of and with them…because we don’t know how many more visits we will have with them. 



Prayers and Progress (from El Salvador)

Whew, What a week it has been!
Lydia and I have been in El Salvador for a week now and Josue and Elise for almost two.

We are filling our time here with family, food (lots of coffee, mangos, pupusas and Salvadoran junk food), sunshine and …more adoption paperwork!

Which is actually quite a blessing. The day Josue flew down I got a call from our lawyer in ES letting me know two things:

1. They rejected two documents in our dossier (AGAIN) over some very minor details and one of those documents would only be accepted if done IN EL SALVADOR. Can we praise Jesus for that timing? 


2. They might have a kid for us. 


I know. A kid? For us? Just one? Even though they haven’t accepted our dossier?

So many questions.

When I got down here we got to work getting our documents re-worked and submitted which has meant lots of meetings with our lawyer, the OPA (office of adoptions), photocopies and signatures. 

Amidst all that, though, we learned a little more from the OPA. There is indeed one little boy who they think might be a fit for us…there is also a set of brothers they think might be a fit for us. And, in a crazy, exciting, wild series of events, we get to meet them all while here.

Needless to say it has been an emotional roller coaster. We are so thankful that our dossier will be officially finished and maybe even approved while here (with the help of two women who have been major answers to prayer). We are excited that we might be matched while here! And we are mostly overwhelmed, knowing that we will probably be given the decision of who to adopt. 

We don’t want to have to make that decision. We want to take them all (and the sibling set of 4 they told us about too!)  If it weren’t for my less emotional and more rational husband as well as an adoption process that wouldn’t allow for those changes, I’d likely show up back in the US with 11 kids.

But instead, this week we find ourselves visiting orphan “homes” and meeting three little boys and praying desperately that God would direct our steps and that He would provide a family for the other child(ren).     

 Would you please pray with us? Specifically would you pray for the following:

-divine wisdom and guidance 

-continued favor with both the US and Salvadoran governments

-speedy approvals on all paperwork to come as we finish the adoption (maybe as soon as 6 months)

-continued provision to pay for the next steps

-that God would touch the hearts of more believers to pursue adoption or foster care so that no child (of any age) is without a family 

-that God would continue to prepare our family (including our child(ren) who will come soon) for the many changes that this next season will bring and that He will give us His grace every step of the way 

Y’all, what a journey this has been. And it is far from over. But we see that light at the end of the tunnel and we are running towards it with all we have.

“And I am sure of this, that he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.”

‭‭Philippians‬ ‭1:6‬ ‭

(A few iPhone photos from this week as well…what a beautiful country this is).

Life and Adoption Update: March 2016

First things first…we now have TWO sweet girls in the Galan home!

Little Miss Lydia Noelle Galan was born December 16, 2015.  She is the sweetest little cuddle bug and we are totally smitten.  Elise is THRILLED to have a baby sister, but she hasn’t quite grasped the word gentle though we say it 1752 times a day.  She loves to hug her, kiss her, sing her songs and proudly introduces her to strangers in the grocery store

photos by my talented friend Michelle Lindsay

Bringing Lydia home has made me all the more anxious to meet and cuddle our other two children.  I find myself thinking about them a lot and wandering what they will be like.  I wonder if they are boys or girls, and if they will love music and soccer.  I wonder where they are and how they are.  Sometimes I worry…are they safe?  are they hungry?  do they have someone to love on them right now?  I pray that even now, that God would be protecting them from harm, preparing them to come to their forever family, and loving on them through someone in their lives.

Our dossier is in El Salvador after a bumpy few months of miscommunication with our agency.  Upon arrival it was reviewed and they requested we send some more detailed information.  Which means more paperwork, more translation, notarization, apostille, and so on.  The updated dossier is in the hands of OPA (Office of Adoptions) as of last week and is hopefully complete enough to be reviewed and approved by the board.  Once that happens (It could be anywhere from 2-8 weeks), then we will finally be eligible to be “matched” with our children!  While that can also take a long time, we are hoping and praying for a quick referral and process to bring them home!

Just a few weeks ago Josue’s dad sent us an article in one of the main El Salvador newspapers about a law that was passed to help expedite the adoption process!  That is a huge answer to prayer for us and the many other families hoping to adopt there!  In theory they will be cutting adoption processing times to a maximum of one year (currently it can take up to SEVEN years in some cases)!

Praise the Lord for his continued provision in this process, and the grace He gives us through it all.  Thank you for your prayers, support and love.  We are so thankful!